Temenos

Temenos is a 'practical vision' for a non-hierarchical, non-professional, wholistic Australian community network, which provides workable, compassionate, non-coercive and cost-effective alternatives to the Mental Health System, drug-based (biologic) psychiatry and hospitals for persons experiencing an acute crisis in living. Temenos places equal focus upon human rights advocacy for persons in the 'Mental Health System' who have been diagnosed as having a 'mental illness'. <br /><br />'Non-professional' denotes, firstly, that Temenos does not assume that professional 'mental health' training and education automatically translate into an ability to help persons in an acute personal crisis; secondly, it implies that the work of Temenos is largely voluntary, that is, 'amateur', or based on compassion, not on a desire for 'professional' financial gain. As a consequence of the relatively high fees charged by professional 'mental health' persons, a vast, disempowering, socio-economic gap persists <br />between 'professionals' and (usually financially poor) persons in crisis.

Temenos

Temenos is a 'practical vision' for a non-hierarchical, non-professional, wholistic Australian community network, which provides workable, compassionate, non-coercive and cost-effective alternatives t…

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suicidal thinking as an addiction

obsessive suicidal thoughts drove her to three drug overdoses and three confinements in psychiatric wards.<br />Susan Rose Blauner knew the killer stalking her for 18 years: It was her own mind. <br /><br />During that time, obsessive suicidal thoughts drove her to three drug overdoses and three confinements in psychiatric wards.<br /><br />Through a combination of spirituality, 10 years of intense psychotherapy, her own fierce determination, and the loving support of family and friends, Blauner gained control over what she terms an "addiction" to suicide.<br /><br />"I see suicidal thinking as an addiction. For me, it became an addiction just like alcohol is to an alcoholic. With stress, I reach for suicidal thinking," Blauner says.<br /><br />She recounts her experiences and offers advice in her new book, How I Stayed Alive When My Brain Was Trying To Kill Me: One Person's Guide to Suicide Prevention. Blauner calls it a hands-on guide for those plagued by suicidal thoughts, their families and friends, and mental health professionals.<br /><br />"I started writing the book about 10 years ago, and I was actually suicidal through most of the time I was writing it," says Blauner, 36, who lives on Cape Cod, Mass.<br /><br />As she wrestled with her self-destructive demons, she searched for a book on suicide prevention that was written by an ordinary person with firsthand experience. "I wanted a book that would tell me how not to kill myself," Blauner says.<br /><br />She couldn't find the kind of book she wanted, so she decided to write one herself.<br /><br /> Listen to our radio show on Attempting Suicide and Coping with Suicidal Thoughts<br />using windows media player <br /><br />What would drive someone to actually try and kill themselves? For years, our guest, Melanie, was told she was worthless, lazy, crazy, and would never amount to anything. She and other callers share their stories of suicide attempts and how they feel about surviving. Dr. Kumar provides insight into psychological aspects of suicide. <br />"It gives a very unique perspective in that it's coming from the mind of a suicidal thinker. The book is very empathetic and compassionate. It's really a conversation between myself and the reader, whether they're the suicidal thinker or the caregiver," Blauner says.<br /><br />She wants those haunted by suicidal thoughts to know they're not alone, and that they shouldn't be ashamed to reach out for help.<br /><br />"It's a real in-your-face book. The thing I realized is that most suicidal thinkers don't want to be dead, they just don't want to feel the pain anymore in their brains," Blauner says. <br /><br />Her book, which carries a foreword by Dr. Bernie S. Siegel, provides suicidal thinkers with ways to keep from taking their life so they can buy the time to learn how they can reduce their emotional pain. It includes a list of coping strategies that Blauner calls her "25 Tricks of the Trade."<br /><br />Those strategies include asking for help, using suicide emergency hotlines, having a crisis plan, gaining an understanding of your feelings, signing no-harm-to-self agreements, therapy, exercise and keeping a journal.<br /><br />The book also has important messages for family and friends of suicidal people. It includes letters from Blauner's family and friends describing their experiences and feelings when Blauner was actively suicidal.<br /><br />"Caregivers can see that they're not alone, and that it's OK to be angry and still love the person. It's OK to be confused. It's OK to not have all the answers," Blauner says.<br /><br />advertisement<br /><br /> <br />People who have lost a loved one to suicide can find some solace in the book and ease their guilt that they could have done more to prevent the suicide.<br /><br />"They see that, in that moment, there's such constricted vision and tunnel vision for the suicidal thinker that the rest of the world doesn't even exist. It's just you and this brain that's telling you that you want to be dead," Blauner says.<br /><br />Writing the book was a form of therapy for her.<br /><br />"It helped me make sense of why I had to struggle for 18 years. There's a reason for this. So now I can give back to the world so that someone else does not have to struggle."<br /><br />She says she'll donate 10 percent of any royalty profits from the book to the National Hopeline Network, Kristin Brooks Hope Center, a suicide prevention hotline.<br /><br />Blauner says she recently experienced an "epiphany" that suicidal thinking doesn't have to be a part of her life anymore.<br /><br />"I'm as healed as I can be in the moment," she says. "I'm pretty convinced that I'm never going to kill myself, but I can't say that those thoughts won't ever occur to me again in my life."<br /><br />Her life is now one of ongoing vigilance. For example, she has to ensure she doesn't create any undue stress that may trigger suicidal thoughts. Those stressors include such things as being tired and hungry.<br /><br />Blauner admits that suicide is still a difficult subject for people to discuss.<br /><br />"One of my goals is to really bust it out in terms of the stigma of mental illness, and just get people talking about it," she says.<br /><br />Each year in the United States, about 30,000 people commit suicide and there are about 730,000 suicide attempts. Suicide is the second leading cause of death among college students and the third leading cause of death for people aged 15 to 24.<br /><br />The National Hopeline Network 1-800-SUICIDE provides access to trained telephone counselors, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Or for a crisis center in your area, go here.<br /><br />RELATED LINKS AND INFO<br />Understanding and Helping the Suicidal Person<br />Depression: Understanding Thoughts of Suicide<br />Frequently Asked Questions About Suicide<br />Suicide in Youth: What You Can Do About It<br />All About Teen Suicide<br />The Suicide of Older Men and Women<br />Feeling Suicidal? How To Help Yourself<br />Reasons for Living Can Prevent Suicide During Depression<br />Psychotherapy in Treating the Chronically Suicidal Patient<br />Handling A Phone Call From A Suicidal Person<br />Suicide Facts, Suicide Statistics<br />Suicide Risk Runs in Families<br />High-Suicide Families Eyed By Genetic Scientists<br />Suicide: The Risk is Lifelong for Those Who've Tried It Once

suicidal thinking as an addiction

obsessive suicidal thoughts drove her to three drug overdoses and three confinements in psychiatric wards.Susan Rose Blauner knew the killer stalking her for 18 years: It was her own mind. During that…

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